The truth about (and essence of) Challenge
Being a Challenge to women is not hard… if you’re patient! Here’s why it’s so important:
Яudd-O: dude relationships are easy
Яudd-O: it’s the fighting that’s hard
Яudd-O: I know that sounded sophistically easy
Яudd-O: but it’s the truth
Яudd-O: starting a relationship takes effort
Яudd-O: from then on, it all works itself out on its own
Яudd-O: why? cuz solving a problem is EASY if the two involved want to solve it
Яudd-O: it’s conversely HARD to solve if only one of them (or none) wants to solve it
Яudd-O: and if that’s the case, then why go on? it would be an exercise in futility
Яudd-O: the precondition to make a relationship survive is, thus, the WANT of two people to solve an impasse
Яudd-O: (tangentially to this conversation, there are certain things, in my opinion, that simply DON’T warrant even trying to solve, such as cheating for example)
Яudd-O: once there’s a mutual WILL, everything else falls into place
Яudd-O: so you see, the important part of a relationship is maintaining the WILL
Яudd-O: and how do you maintain the WILL? simply through CHALLENGE
nono, you misunderstood the concept of challenge
Яudd-O: challenge is all about making the other person want you, value you and miss you
Яudd-O: sure there’s nothing wrong with sharing, but in order for her to SHARE with you, she needs to WANT to SHARE with you first
So, there you have it. Feel free to believe this.